“What do you need to be happy?” asked Miriam, our Spanish teacher. I replied that I need three things: my basic material needs, freedom, and the ability to help others. When you practice Spanish four hours a day for nine days, there is plenty of time for philosophical questions. This question, however, has some very real repercussions in Honduras.
Miriam said many people in the world are unhappy because their material desires have grown beyond what their circumstances support. With the expansion of communication, people in developing countries are constantly exposed to advertising and media from the United States. The ads here bombard rich and poor Hondurans alike with a lifestyle that only the rich can afford.
For a culture where many things are lacking, including clean water, Hondurans have a surprising amount of modern gadgets. Nearly every adult under the age of forty has a cell phone. The house where I stayed in Santa Lucia had 100 channels of cable, which came at a price of $20 per month. From what I’ve seen, having 100 channels is not an uncommon luxury here. Miriam said many Hondurans are in constant competition with one another to obtain the next possession on the ladder to material wealth.
An increasing number of Hondurans are unable to find happiness in Honduras. Thousands leave every year, legally and illegally, for the United States. Families are often broken apart when a parent leaves to find work and opportunity in the United States. These parents leave with the pretense of returning, but Miriam said many don’t.
Unhappiness due to material desire is an old problem, but globalization has taken it to a new level. Cultures that were more isolated decades ago are now well aware that the grass looks greener on the other side.
Globalization is here to stay, but the world needs to find a way to deal with some of its side effects. Corporations can’t be blamed for advertising their products to anyone willing to listen. There is no going back to a world where a person struggling to get by in Honduras is not exposed to life United States.
The only solution I see is to improve conditions in Honduras and to develop a greater sense of cultural pride among Hondurans. A poor Honduran needs to be able to say to herself, “Yes, I don’t have a car, and I don’t have big screen TV, but here in Honduras, we have other things that are just as good.”
Life in Honduras has plenty of advantages. Honduras is a country full of natural beauty. Most people here lead less stressful lives than we do in the United States. Despite the alarming number of single mothers here, family ties are still strong. It is taken for granted that Grandmothers and aunts take care of little children and that these children will one day take care of their aging parents.
Hondurans already have some of this pride. Nearly everyone I’ve discussed food with has told me how healthy and filling the Honduran plato tipico (typical meal) of beans, tortillas and cheese is.
Irma, my host mother in Santa Lucia, told me proudly that she’d rather stay in Honduras than move to the U.S. She spent a year in the United States a decade ago and didn’t enjoy life there at all. She said she was offered permanent residency but declined. “I don’t want to stay,” she told the immigration officer. “I don’t even like living in your country.”
Every Honduran can’t come to the United States. Even if conditions do improve here, it will be a long time before the average Honduran can lead the life they see on TV. It will be an especially long time if all the Hondurans who can leave the country.
For conditions to improve here, the Honduran dream can’t be to skip the country and live the American dream. The dream should be to stay here and improve a country that already has much to be proud of.



